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i am pam. human. 5'2" in height. 90 pounds. female. slim. long-haired. single. simple. daughter. sister. true friend. listener. keen observer. humbled. sincere. loves deeply. passionate. cares unceasingly. naive. jolly. funny. corny. Christ-centered. imperfect. fifth among seven. half conservative. half liberated. soft hearted. sometimes hard headed. compassionate. kind. polite. idealistic. opinionated. not that too nationalistic. debater. day dreamer. easily bored. emotional. open minded. laughs out loud. irritable. stubborn. childish sometimes. talkative. tactless. straightforward. brat. half patient. half impatient. understanding. sincere. definite but sometimes vague. sensitive. half rational. half irrational. accidentally humorous. half courageous. half weak. worrier. loner. treasures relationships. definitely whole again. singer. guitar player. blogger. writer.
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- ken:
Hi! Thanks for being straight forward. Your thoughts are enlightening and striking! kudos! Hope that those people whom you are pointing to may read your blogs that they themselves be enlightened.
Lastly, please express your opinion about the RISKS OF NON INVOLVMENT IN THE 2010 ELECTION. it will be greatly appreciated. Send me a copy over my e-add. a million thanks!- zack:
hi pam, ahhm can you help me??.. san po ba yung bir sa gil puyat.. i need to accomplished my bir kasi hanggang tomorrow nalang?!!.. help me naman please.. if you want you can text me for your answer.. i realyy need it na eh.. thanks.. 09275368754
- pamspeaks:
@salbehe: i mean, “bawal mabasa” hahaha. typo. ^_^
- pamspeaks:
@salbehe: hi salbehe! ang tinutukoy ko ay yung post mo bout “bawal manasa.” nakulitan lang ako. anyway, thanks for dropping by din. ^_^
@elyl: salamat naman. hahaha
- elyl:
haha.. oh nabisita ko gihapon ine nga im new blogsite!
- salbehe:
Hi pam! Hindi ko alam kung anong post ang tinutukoy mo pero maraming salamat sa pagbisita at paglagay ng koment. Nakakataba ng puso. Sali ka sa susunod na kontes
Let’s Fight Climate Change
October 28, 2009This morning, I received an e-mail from someone I do not know (but would gladly know if given the chance), about a campaign that focuses on climate change. Part of the e-mail says:
”Ateneo’s Collegiate Society of Advertising (COSA) will be having its first-ever Fun Run on January 24, 2010 (Sunday) at the Ateneo campus grounds called, “RUN AGAINST THE ELEMENTS: Ateneo COSA Fun Run 2010″ with our slogan: Stand Up to Climate Change.”
They’re asking to spread the word, so here I am spreading the word.
God Bless Everyone.
Let’s all stand up and do our part to help heal the world we are living in.
2010 Election Watch: 10 Days To Go
October 22, 2009Sampung araw nalang mula ngayon bago ang huling araw ng pagpaparehistro para sa nalalapit na halalan. Ikaw ba? Oo, ikaw na nagbabasa nito. Nakapagparehistro ka na ba?
Kung hindi pa, ano pang hinihintay mo? Hahayaan mo na naman bang matapos ang halalan na wala ka man lang naiambag para sa pagbabago ng bayan?
Wag mong isiping mapupunta lang sa wala ang boto mo. Importante ang bawat boto ng bawat Pilipino para sa ikauunlad ng bansang ito. Kung lagi nating iisipin na mapupunta lang sa wala ang pagsisikap natin para sa pagbabagong inaasam, wala talagang mangyayari.
Kaya ano? Hahayaan mo bang paulit-ulit nalang tayo sa mga suliranin ng bayan?
Dali na! Wag mong hayaang lumipas ang pagkakataon mong makilahok para sa posibleng pagbabago.
Magparehistro ka na!
*****
I do not know how many people read my blog(s). I do not know even how far it goes. All I know is, one person who reads or who will read this is enough so the word would be spreaded. ^_^
The Hassles and Bustles at BIR
October 16, 2009Ika-9 ng Oktubre, taong kasalukuyan. I was on-leave from work. I intentionally filed my leave so I could fix some papers that I know I will be needing in time. I declared that day as Pam’s Day. No work, purely a me, myself, and I day. Well, yun ang dapat kaso hindi yun ang nangyari dahil sa hassle na na-encounter ko with BIR. Na-consume kasi ang buong kalahati ng araw ko.
.Ang Kwento.
At around nine o’clock in the morning, I arrived at the BIR office at Gil Puyat in Makati City. I went there for two reasons only. (1) To verify my TIN and (2) to apply for TIN identiication card. Apparently, hindi yun ang nangyari.
After they’ve checked my TIN, I asked the lady who assisted me kung san na ako pupunta so I could have my TIN ID, then she told me to go to “50 sa kabila.” I thought kabilang hanay ng room. So I asked Manong Guard kung san yung 50. He said, “Ay RDO 50 po yun, sa Atrium.” I was like, “Sa Atrium po? Sa Makati Ave.?” Then Manong G said yes.
Ok na. I did not bother to ask why. I just went back to the reception of the building, got my ID back, and headed to Makati Ave. Since I do not know where Atrium building was, I asked a lady (I assume she’s a teller at BDO dahil sa uniform nya). She gave me some directions though she wasn’t that sure dahil di pa daw sya nagagawi dun, she’s just familiar with it. She was a Good Samaitan really dahil nung nakita nyang I was having a hard time with the directions she gave me, she again talked to me and told me to just try walking ahead. Luckily, another lady came to the rescue, she heard us talking, and asked where am I heading. Heaven sent perhaps, she was going to Atrium as well kaya we went together.
Pagdating ko sa Atrium, I went straight to BIR. Pagkakita ko sa isang Manong Guard (2), I asked where will I go to apply for TIN ID. Nagsungit si Manong G (2) dahil for Pasay TIN holder lang pala ang office na yun. He then directed me to the other side of the building. Nabanas ako kay Manong G (2) dahil hindi sya accomodating to think na all-smile ang lola mo.
Pumila ako pagdating ko sa information area (kuno) ng BIR Makati Ave. Branch. Pagkaharap ko kay kuyang nag-aassist, I asked him for directions on what should I do so I could get my TIN ID. To make the story short, I almost lost my patience dahil kailangan ko pa palang magpalipat ng documents to RDO 49 (which is yung una kong pinuntahang BIR office earlier). He gave me the form, and went inside. Ok naman ang mga tao sa loob. Wala namang nagsungit (in fairness).
Now here’s the catch, after passing to them the form that I filled in, the man who assisted me told me to go back to RDO 49 (in short, sa Gil Puyat ulit), ask for Form 2305, and fill it up. Wow. Nanghina ako dun. Hindi naman ako adik noh? Sa sobrang inis ko, and since I have no one to share my sentiments, nakatunganga akong sumakay ng FX pabalik ng BIR Gil Puyat Branch.
Buti nalang, Ateng Guard there is kind and accomodating. She smiled at me when I handed her my ID so I could go back to 6th floor of that building. Pagdating ko dun, I asked for the form, and was told na I need my employer to fill up the boxes below that form. In short kailangan kong pumuntang office before I could pass that form at maayos ang papers ko sa kanila, at eventually makakuha ng TIN ID.
.Lessons.
(1)I learned that in dealing with government offices, you need to fill yourself with a lot of patience. Kailangan meron ka nun dahil kung hindi, patay ka (not literally of course). Sobrang malabong kausap mga tao, medyo magulo at nakakainis ang proseso. Sabi ko nga, ang hirap palang maging mabuting mamayan ng Pilipinas. Bakit? Ang daming hassle eh. Pano naman kasi, bulok ang sistema. Naisip ko nga, pano pala kung yung TIN ko ay kinuha sa ibang lugar na may kalayuan? Eh di nagpabalik-balik ako ng bonggang bongga? Nice naman.
(2)Even if it’s tiring already, do not forget to wear a smile kahit pa nagmamasungit ang mga tao. Hay, kahit halos di na maipinta ang mukha ko nun, I still smiled at people lalo na yung nice people. Naisip ko kasi, ang mean ko naman kung di ako mag-smile sa kanila, wala naman kasi silang kasalanan.
(3)Understand. Bilang mamayan ng bansang ito, ang tanging magagawa mo nalang since di ka naman makakapagdemand ng ora mismong pagbabago, intindihin mo nalang ang bagal ng poseso at pagsusungit ng mga tao. Anyway, sabi nga, may araw din naman lahat ng to. Meaning, perhaps in ten years time, magiging maayos na din lahat ang processes sa government offices natin (fingers crossed).
Chivalry is Not (yet) Dead
October 12, 2009I’ve seen a lot of people, been into different cirsumstances wherein I saw, I witnessed na chivalry is still alive. May mga tao pa ring marunong ng courtesy. May mga tao pa ring gentleman. It’s nice to know na kahit papano, di pa rin naman pala nawawala yung ugaling yun sa atin.
Last Friday, I had my share of experience about it. I was walking along Makati Ave. then I asked an “ate (1)” kung san ang Atrium building. She was nice. She gave me a little intruction, kaso nung nakita nyang hesitant ako (di kasi sure si ate kung yun nga yung building na tinutukoy ko), she again gave me another instruction. Luckily, while we were talking, may dumaang another “ate (2).” She heard our conversation and asked me kung san daw ba ako papunta. Fortunately, dun din pala sya papunta so she told me to just go along with her. Thanks to them dahil I was able to go dun sa Atrium safe and sound.
Then another story. Kaninang morning, habang nasakay kung bus, medyo siksikan na. Yung aleng katabi ko, bumaba na. So after nun, the man who happened to be standing, sat beside me. After awhile, she saw the woman in front of him. You know what he did? He offered his seat instead. Oh diba? Bongga si kuya! Bravo.
I have seen a lot of cases na nakakatuwang makita. It makes you proud of those people. Pano naman kas, sadyang karamihan ngayon, wala na yung chivalry sa kanila. I remember one time, sa mall, habang naglalakad ako, binangga ako ng mama. Sad to say, di man lang nagsorry.
Those simple gestures matter. Kahit simpleng pa-sorry at pa-thank you. Yung simpleng pauunahin mo ang babae. Yung mga bagay na yun, it matters a lot. Thank goodness nalang dahil may piling individuals pa naman na merong magandang kalooban.
By the way, sa kasadsagan ng lahat ng unos na dumating sa bansa natin, I must say, naglabasan lahat ng may magagandang kalooban. That made me even more believe that chivalry isn’t dead.
Malapit na. Paalala Lang.
October 8, 2009Mark your calendar. Oo, markahan mo na. November 20, 2009 is the start of filing of certificate of candidacy. Huwaw! Eleksyon na naman. Tiba-tiba na naman ang sambayanang Pilipino. Madami na namang mangangako na mapapako. Madaming pera na naman ang lulustayin ng mga kakandidato. Okay fine, magpapaka-positive ako. Baka naman kasi this time, promises won’t be broken. Though I am a believer that promises are really made to be broken, this time, I’ll keep my fingers crossed (for this nation’s sake).
Seriously, in about two months from now, a lot of hopefuls will be presenting themselves to ask for our votes. Nation-changing ang 2010 elections. It’s really going to be not our ordinary national elections. Honestly, I’m very excited of the upcoming elections. Though I am kinda scared of the probabilities (like cheating, politics-elated killings, vote-buying, etcetera), I am keeping my hopes high. I know, with all the hardships that this nation has gone through, hindi papayag ang sambayanan na madaya na naman.
I grew up in politics. Oo, you read that right. My father is a politician (I actually made a blog post about it in my other blog). BUT, as in with a big but, not that because he is, eh puro pagtatanggol at good words about politicians nalang ang gagawin at sasabihin ko. Just so you know, my father and I usually exchange words about the Philippine politics. You know, how everything’s going.
Anyway, so much for that. Ang catch lang naman kung bat ko nabanggit yun is, bilang isang anak ng poitiko, nakita ko ang worst sa Philipine politics. Sabi nga, nagsisimula sa ibaba and lahat hindi ba? My father is from the ibaba. Meaning, he is a politiko from the municipal level. But again, let me say this, I have this great pride that my father is not the “usual” politiko in our country. I am not saying that because I am his daughter but because that’s a fact. If you want, you do your own investigation bout him.
Going back, Philippine politics is really very unique. Ay grabe! Compared to other countries, uso talaga ang dayaan (okay, exempted dito yung mga natatalong politicians na ginagawang rason ang kesyo nadaya daw sila even if hindi naman talaga), ang patayan (lalo na sa municipal level), and bilihan ng boto (ito ang favorite ng mga botante. tsktsk), at ano pa ba? Well, madami pa. Actually di lang boto ang binabayaran, pati COMELEC officials (aminin! wag in denial).
Minsan nga, naiisip ko, posible pa kayang dumating ang isang araw na magkakaron ng eleksyon sa Pilipinas na walang mga ganito? Yun bang super pure at walang halong kung anek-anek na kaechosan ang mga politiko. Yun bang walang madadaya (trulalou man o kaechosan lang), walang mambibili ng boto at nagpapaboto, walang patayan. Posible naman siguro. Sabi nga, hangga’t may buhay, may pag-asa.
This I have to say, in my humble opinion, that change would only be posible if the people themselves will start it. Yun bang di sila magpapadala sa mga promises, yung di sila magpapabili ng boto, yun bang sila mismo ang kikilos para protektahan ang Pilipinas. I’ve said this a lot of times already, after all, at the end of the day, walang ibang magke-care sa Pilipinas kundi mga Pilipino din.
As the day passes by, as politicians start to win our hearts, as electorate, let us not be unmindful of what’s happening around us. Let us not just look forward on what this people have to say, but instead, let us keep our eyes open on the probabilities. Let us not allow irregularities in this coming elections. Let us care for this nation.
For the politicians, be humbled. Stop creating issues against one another, di makakatulong sa pag-unlad ng bayan yan. Say what you want to say and mean it, or better yet magsilbi nalang kayo, gawin nyo nalang ang mga bagay na dapat nyong gawin para sa ikauunlad ng bansa. Wag na tayong maglokohan. Be sincere. We all should be.






